sorry I havent written hear in ages. Life got so busy and I just didnt have time to sit down and blog like I wanted to. I let myself  go and the little bit of pounds I lost I gained and then some. I have to start back at square one and its difficult let me tell you. I notice that the more weight I gain the less energy I have.

I want to get a gym membership because at least I know that if I have a gym membership that I pay for I will go and work out. I give in to easily to temptation and I love eating junk food. IF I knew how to control my eating I wouldnt be weighing as much as I do. I feel ashamed at not keeping up with my workouts and watching what I am eating.

I am going to go back to watching what I eat and trying to walk on the treadmill at least.

I am thinking of getting this tattoo or part of it on my back tell me what you guys think about it. I am going through my stage where I want to get a tattoo or something different than the normal things that I do . Here is a picture of  it.

I am so tired of losing things in between my seats. I was going crazy looking for my cellphone and guess where it was. I was ready to report my cellphone missing when I called it and found it in between the side of the driver’s seat. It must have fell when I was driving to the store. I  was thinking to myself why dont they have some sort of cover to block the wedges betweeen the car seats and guess what they do have something. Its some sort of seat wedge made to prevent exactly what happend to me.

You dont want to know what I found next to my phone. Well for those of you who are curious I found some business cards , some old fries and three pens(so thats where they go ). I am investing in some of those seat wedges and especially after finding all that nasty gunk under the seats. If you need some too you should get them soon because for a limited time you get two seat wedges and led car light and slide free  pad for you cellphone for free. Thats right you are getting 60 dollars worth of  items  for only 19.95

I am going to be happy when I can install the seat wedges  and not lose things in between my seats. I think I am going to buy some for my van too. Hubby will be happy cause he is always losing his change and his hands dont fit in between the seats.

Anyone who knows me knows how long I have struggled with my weight. I went from being stick thin as a kid to being  dramatically overweight. I cannot blame others because I did this to me. I am the one who chose to eat unhealthy food and now I am the one who has to make a choice to make it right. I have been looking into diet programs that are going to work for me and as many of you know I dont really like to cook so that  makes it kind of hard finding a diet program.

One of the programs that has caught my eye is the Nutrasystem diet program. One of the major things I like about this program is that they willl deliver the prepackaged food right to my door so that eliminates one of my biggest problems which is cooking. I also like that I get to have desert with their diet program and no you did not read that wrong you really get to have  a desert and again that wins bigtime with me because I have a huge sweet tooth. Another added benefit for me is that  Nutrasystem offers a men’s, women’s, vegetarian, diabetic, and silver plan for those over 60 years old so this basically means that my husband and his mom and dad can join us in the program and lose weight right along with us.

One thing I like is that NutriSystem has been around for over 30 years and to me a diet that has been around for so long lets me know that it works . NutriSystem’s   diet programs consist of  the good  carbs  and are  low in fat. It is based on the Glycemic Index.   I struggle alot with carbs so I am highly interested in how this diet works .

One of the best parts about getting the NutraSystem is that you can order it directly from Tvtopten.com. If you order it and enroll in the Auto delivery service  at the same time you  could save 10% as well as receive the jumpstart kit for free.  The jumpstart kits includes the FlavorFulls, which is a fiber drink that can help suppress hunger, Success Cards to help you out on your diet program Premium Connect which is access to a personalized coaching service.  Thats alot of stuff that you can get for free.
Select the auto-delivery option for two months in a row and you’ll get two weeks for free.  A program like this is what I have been waiting for, I need something that is easy for me to do since I am super busy. I cant wait to be able to fit those nice clothes that I have been saving all these years.

Where have I been you say . I have been around just really busy thats all. I went through some serious drama and I got a bit down on myself  and felt like my whole world was caving in on me and I had no way of pulling myself up. I prayed and prayed and wished for the best and little by little things are starting to get better. We are still financially strapped but I am trying my best to save money and use coupons whenever I can.

The hubby will be  getting his Master’s degree in May and I need to have some money saved up for his graduation so I am feeling a little of pressure. Not only that but  the Price that we normally pay for our mortgage went up and we are struggling as it is so that got me down. I need to find a way to be able to pay the extra amount that it went up. I am going to have to get some kind of job that will be able to make up the difference.

Last but not least we did our taxes and ended up owing some money but not as bad as I thought we would owe . I am trying my darnest to look at the bright side of things and not get too down or depressed. I have heard the saying “this too shall pass ” and I am hoping that this time of struggle goes by quick and we are able to get on our feet. I didn’t want to discuss our personal and private business with the world but I have noticed that I do feel better when I write down my worries and fears and anything I am feeling. I  have always worried about what others might think about me or my family. Its time I stop worrying about what others might think and live my life the way  I want  too, not the way others want me too.

I feel so frazzled. I hate having to wonder wether we will be getting taxes or oweing taxes. I really hope that we get some kind of taxdes back but I highly doubt it as hubby didnt take care of things he should have taken care of last year. I also hate that I am owed some money and people dont pay back. If I borrow money I make sure that we pay it back as soon as we can and we always make payment arrangements.

I jsut dont get the logic in people. How can you owe someone money and tell that same someone that you owe money to what  stuff you have been buying and all the places you have been going to but when they ask for the money  that they owe you  they tell you uugh I dont have any moeny to give you. They has jsut told you all the things they were doing but when it came down to paying that is when all the excuses came about.

I just needed to vent really quick and now that I am done I am going to go and relax if I can.

I am so happy I finally won something. I had entered lifepassedby‘s giveaway and I won. Me the person who is never lucky at winning anything  won the 25 dollar gift card she was offering in her giveaway.

I am so excited to pick out what I am going to buy from the Edenfantasys  website. In other news my best friend a.ka. my sister is finally coming back. I missed her like crazy and my kids did too. I have had my cousin visiting me since last thursday and its been a blast having her here.

I want to go somewhere fun the only promblem is that I dont know where I want to go yet. Oh yesterday I read on my friends facebook that they are ready to adopt a child. I am so happy for them. If I could help them out I totally would they deserve a baby. Hmm I have to take some books to the library but I am too cozy in my house to want to go to the library.

OMG is all I can say. I used the Wii fit for the first time and all I can say is that I am way outta shape which I knew that but I didnt expect the Wii fit to tell me that. I really need to start eating smaller portions and If I work on the wii fit everyday along with some cardio workout(which reminds me that I have to go out and buy it ) I think I will be able to battle the bulge I am dealing with.

In other news I miss my friend like crazy!! She left yesterday and although she has technically been gone less than a day I miss her already. She is the ying to my yand and without her I feel like part fo me is missing which sucks bigtime. I need to occupy myself with something so I wont miss her as much as I do.

I need to figure our what is for dinner right now but I really dont care to eat much right now. Nana is also sick hopefully she doesnt have a fever so she can go to school tommorow.

I have been feeling alot better and I have decided to sell avon. I want to interact with more people and what better way that selling avon. I love avon products and I love meeting new people. I think that having something for myself  to do will make me feel alot better.

Oh I also got the Wii fit and now all I have to do is set it up and start excercising. I am serious about losing weight. I just need to eat alot better than I do. I need to find a way to eat what I like but not gain weight. When the weather gets nicer I will start walking again. I am determined to make a change this year no matter how small.

I feel sad and those empty feelings are coming back again. I keep wondering if I need to talk to a docter about it . I feel like a part of me is missing. I dont know if its because I lost the two people closest to me which was my mother and grandmother. It  seems like those I love the most are the ones who go away. I sometimes get to scared to love someone to much because I am so afraid of losing them.

I love my babies so much and alot of times I think how they missed getting to know their grandmother. She only got to meet the girls and she really only got to see nana once she actually waited till after I had her and when I took her to see my mother the day after she saw her she passed away.

I feel as though I really didnt have a chance to mourn her. I didnt have that closure and it keeps haunting me . I wish I had said goodbye I  wish I had soend more time with her and that she was here. I am full of wishing and wanting but there is nothing I can do about it ….